You’re seeing a guy for a little while, it could be weeks or maybe months. He might do the slow fade out, meaning he stops initiating contact and when you reach out to him he takes hours or days to reply.
You text a lot, hang out, have fun, things seems to be moving along swimmingly and a relationship seems like it’s just around the corner. This goes on for a while until you take the unfortunate hint. He doesn’t reach out and he doesn’t reply when you contact him..
The damage is done, there’s nothing you can do so don’t torture yourself over it. Most men would rather walk over a bed of burning hot coals than tell a girl to her face they’re not into her. And most of the time, they will reason that the girl is probably on the same page so there is no need to reach out.
I’ve been there, so believe me I know how awful it feels. Like many women, my reaction was a mix of rage and indignation. Because it’s an uncomfortable conversation to have and he doesn’t want to have it. Also, men just aren’t as equipped to handle emotions and emotional situations as women are, so they avoid them. They tell themselves that she must know this isn’t going to work out and calling and telling her something she already knows would just be silly, so that’s the end of that. If he disappears, it’s because he isn’t the right guy for you.
If he was the right guy for you…well he would be with you!
He wouldn’t have come up with a list of reasons to never see or speak to you again, and proceed to never see or speak to you again.
I know it’s hard to accept, especially if you really liked this guy, but you really do need to just trust that it’s for the best.
Why would you want to be with a guy who doesn’t want to be with you anyway? You want to be with a guy who can’t believe his luck that a girl like you would choose him! He may have left you, don’t let him take your dignity with him.Okay so now that we know why, let’s talk about what to do to help you move on to greener pastures. Girls will come up with all kinds of deluded reasons why they absolute must initiate contact.He stopped initiating contact with you because he is no longer interested in you.The sooner you realize and accept this, the better off you’ll be in the long run.Remember, if he wanted to see/speak to you, he would.Josh Norman’s girlfriend Nisa Alston is a lovely young lady living in Atlanta.