Just be firm and prepared, and make sure that you leave yourself an opening to delay or call of sex if your partner is unwilling to meet your requests.
Sex definitely isn’t everything in a relationship, but “bad” sex (if there is such a thing) can sometimes be a symptom of other problems.
Think about it - in the end, it’s your pleasure that’s on the line.
A good sexual relationship takes work and communication.
These days communication is more important than ever.
With the increased spread of dangerous sexually transmitted infections, talking about sex before you have sex could literally save your life.
While the cold mechanics of safer sex may seem a bit unromantic, some of the alternatives - embarrassing trips to the clinic, unsightly diseases or even death - aren’t exactly sexy either.In the end, whether you practice safer sex is your decision.But whatever your choice, it’s a good idea to understand the benefits and risks associated with your decision.Worrying about pregnancy or disease is one of the biggest desire killers, so let your partner know that taking precautions will only help you get into it more…which will almost certainly make it better for them too.This conversation may be a little awkward, but most people will understand that you’re only looking out for your health and theirs.Also, if you’re sure you want to have sex with someone, you may want to use this conversation to initiate sex.