If you get to the point where you’re talking about sexual topics or making sexual jokes and she’s still happy…Speaking in a lower and slower paced tone will help relax her into the mood.You want your voice to be as soft and soothing as possible but still audible.
Or that kind of husky, deliberate voice you get when you just wake up.
Now you want to use that seductive voice to move things toward a more sexual dynamic.
At the same time, she understands you probably aren’t asking what she’s wearing in the middle of the night for fashion purposes.
Immediately, one of two things always happen: If you get a response similar to #2, then stand by why you asked.
You must transition naturally while subtly implying where things are headed.
The two that have always worked for me are: “What are you wearing?
“I’m trying to imagine what you look like right now.”, “Haha, you’ll just have to find out.” That’s usually more than enough to get her to tell you or say “okay”.
Then roll back into, “So describe it to me.” Once she answers those initial questions, follow up with the question that kickstarts the session: “Where are your hands right now?
Then to rub her fingers gently over her clit and so on.” Again, if she challenges you, hold your ground, “I want to have some fun with you.” Or “I want to tell you how to use them.” If she answers that question at all, you are in.