You always have to entertain that possibility—with new loves, old loves, blue loves.
in committing—not to you, not to anyone, not now, not ever." But instead of owning up to that (because people who want to remain single are viewed as damaged? So tell him he can love you and love the other guy at the same time.
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I'm not one of those gay men who think bi guys don't exist.
And I know bi guys are just as capable of being monogamous as other guys—which isn't that comforting when you think about it—and I don't have a problem with my bi brother-in-law being bi.
More importantly, my sister doesn't have a problem with it.
I'm writing from Germany, where I am being heartbroken and not knowing how to go on.
I've been seeing a guy for a couple of months and slowly falling in love with him.
"Peter" has always been very open to me about himself, his failed relationships, and his commitment issues.He talks frequently about his ex-boyfriend from five years ago and how being left created a deep fear of being left once again. Yesterday he told me he's still in love with the guy from one year ago but that his love is unrequited. I'm falling for someone who's not able to love me back, who's stuck in the past, but who wishes to change that in order to let me into his life.He also told me that he values what we have but he can't stop loving this other guy. I am in love and heartbroken at the same time, hopeful and fearful, and unable to get up for the last couple of days. Should I stay and wait for Peter to get better even if it hurts to know he's in love with someone other than me?Or should I leave him as so many others have and hurt him? That's probably not what you wanted or expected to hear, HELPME, and you'll find some more hopeful/less cynical advice further down, I promise.But when a guy with "commitment issues" tells you he's struggling with the emotional fallout of a relationship that ended five years ago still hopelessly in love with someone he hasn't seen for a year...you have to entertain the possibility that he could be lying to you.