I’ve made up my mind to marry a white man because life is too short for you to live it hoping that you’ll find that one in a hundred black men who will be true to his word and won’t turn out to be a deadbeat. They don’t have mothers from hell who expect you to visit their house so you can cook, clean, kneel and kiss their feet.They have boundaries and understand that marriage means a man leaves his father and mother and becomes one with his wife.Black mothers think marriage means a woman leaves her mother and father and becomes drafted into the family as an indentured slave. They don’t feel threatened by their woman earning more or having aspirations.
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He will have the children bathed and put to bed without being asked. You can trust that if he’s out late with his friends he’s not going to end the night having acquired a small house.
You know that when he dies there won’t be any kids coming out of the woodwork making claims on his estate.
White culture values monogamy, whereas black culture puts a premium on how many notches he has on the bed post. It’s that after more than two decades of being in relationships with black men, I’ve gone through enough grief for a lifetime.
Just this past June, rapper Eve married British entrepreneur and millionaire, Maximillion Cooper, in Ibiza. You shouldn’t dance.’ He’s cute so it really messes his whole thing up. You stand still and I’ll dance around you.'”But what Maximillion lacks on the dance floor, he makes up for big time in his support for Eve.
The two had been dating since 2010, and in that time, Eve, born Eve Jihan Jeffers, became close with Cooper’s kids and fell head-over-heels in love with him. It’s a really good relationship, so I’m happy.”But she does admit that the only thing about him that she isn’t that fond of is his dancing skills. The rapper, who has always been pretty independent, told Cocoa Fab that he is teaching her to stress a lot less.“Being married has changed me in a lot of different ways. I don’t have to do everything by myself anymore which is nice.”Love these two and it’s great to see ‘Mrs.
Six months since tying the knot, the newlywed, who says she did change her name to Eve Cooper (it’s still just ‘Eve’ for business though), is spilling the tea about married life. Her hubby just can’t seem to keep up rhythmically.“My poor baby. It’s funny because I’m a really fiercely independent person and I always have been. Don’t even stress.’When you have been doing things for years and my life has been about me for so many years, it’s a weird thing.
While promoting her new Lifetime movie, In a chat with Meredith Vieira, Eve said that she likes the fact that Maximillion has brought her a sense of calm and a lot of happiness. Being married, you have to relinquish some of that.
And it helps that he’s also a cutie.“He’s cute [laughs]. Not in a bad way but in the way that you need to sit back and trust your partner to be able help you with things.
You’re like dancing…you know.’ And then he did it again and did it again, I was like, ‘You know what?
I don’t need a man to ruin my life; I can do that on my own without his help and with much less drama.
Why would I commit myself to a lifetime of disappointment and misery?