The film Fatal Attraction (quite an excellent performance by Glenn Close) and the recent court case of Jodi Arias come to mind.What do all the films and print stories have in common? Dating a person with BPD is not part of your deal – or so you thought.
Nevertheless the healthy mate wonders, “Why are we on these constant roller coaster rides?
” Sooner rather than later he starts to resent walking on eggshells around his lover.
I use the pronoun his because more women are diagnosed with BPD; men instead earn the label antisocial much easier.
Perhaps you feel you're aiming too high, or maybe you're aiming too low.
And when you meet that someone, how do you know you've made the right choice?
And talking about a soul mate makes matters worse—besides, do soul mates even exist?
Here are some articles to help you maneuver the mating game.
All beginnings are lovely – or so the sage proclaims. Two individuals come together – attraction, lust, love, personality styles, personal and family histories, attachment and life styles collide – and there you are in the middle of a daring, challenging, and steamy relationship.
If this ship becomes a timeless elegant regatta or a wrack is heavily determined by the personality styles of the involved partners’.