I plan on moving next month, so hopefully that will end the relationship.
My biggest concern is that he has given her 4 STDs!! I swear I would be locked up if I found out my 14-year old daughter was dating an 18-year old boy, and he gave her 4 STDs! Yeah, you would be reading about me on every blog, and seeing me on all the news channels. Chile, you got my blood pressure up with this letter.
I am a Medical Assistant, so I have warned my daughter about different diseases and how they affect the body. When I took her to get formally diagnosed she was crying and upset. I told her he doesn’t care about her because he still has not been treated by any doctors and still has all those diseases!! A Mad Black Mother, Ma’am, I am mad with you, and for you! Ain’t no way his ole nasty infectious tainted penis and crusty baby nuts would be walking around. I wish my child would tell me that it’s not going to stop her from seeing him.
18 year old guy dating 14 year old
First, I don’t know what state you live in, but I’m not buying that, “Since they met when he was under 18 that there is nothing they can do.” Uhm, the hell!!! What state will overlook an 18-year old dating a 14-year old even if they met while he was under age?
I strongly urge you to look to the courts, talk with a lawyer, and get some legal professionals involved.
I don’t believe that for one minute the state will not press charges, or consider it illegal.
I wouldn't be very happy, as she is under age. I wouldn't ban her from seeing him as the chances are is would push them together but would monitor the situation.
You're ready for things on a physical, mental and emotional level that she is not ready for.
I don't care how mature you think she is, 4 years is huge amount of time when youre that young.
She will not be the same person in 4 years as she is now.
My daughter met this boy back in April and has been seeing him ever since.
The problem is that she is 14-years old, and he just turned 18-years old.
I’ve never approved of this relationship when I found out about it a month ago.
The state that I’m from says he was under 18 at the time they met, so it’s nothing they can do.